MESSAGING

Safely Video-Chatting for the First Time on WhatsApp

Control what your side of the call reveals as carefully as you're assessing theirs. On WhatsApp, where the dominant catfish pattern is non-fixed VoIP numbers used to route the conversation off the original dating platform, this applies directly: A first video call can itself expose your home background, schedule, and other identifying details.

Steps

  1. 01

    Use a neutral background that doesn't show identifying details of your home.

  2. 02

    Use the platform's in-app call feature where possible, rather than sharing a separate video-call link.

  3. 03

    Keep the first call relatively short and treat it as one data point, not a final verdict.

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