Never Sending Money to Someone You Haven't Met
This single rule prevents the large majority of romance-fraud financial loss, and is the easiest rule to talk yourself out of in the moment. Set the rule before you need it, as a fixed line rather than a case-by-case judgment call.
Where It Applies
Platform-SpecificMost relevant on the specific platforms listed below, where the pattern this addresses actually shows up.
What It Counters
Targeted Counter-MoveDirectly counters one or more specific manipulation tactics, listed below.
The Steps
- 01
Decide in advance: no money to anyone you haven't met in person and verified, full stop.
- 02
Treat any argument for an exception to this rule as itself a red flag.
- 03
Tell a friend the rule exists so they can hold you to it if needed.
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