BEHAVIORAL
Choosing a Safe First Meeting Location : Countering Refuses In-Person Meeting
Choosing a Safe First Meeting Location is the direct counter to Refuses In-Person Meeting: Each near-term meeting plan collapses due to a new obstacle, while the relationship's intensity keeps climbing regardless. Pick a public, populated venue you know, rather than accepting their suggestion by default.
Steps
- 01
Suggest the location yourself, or counter-propose if theirs feels off.
- 02
Choose somewhere with staff present and other people around.
- 03
Arrange your own transportation both ways rather than relying on them for a ride.
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